i have been to WoI once or twice - when the dm accidentally(?) set it to local vault and had some server vault players come in.
WoI is a very long-standing server in nwn and has a lot of regulars. It wasn't bad when i was there. The funny thing is, when i was there there was a server wide dispute between 2 boyfriends and their girlfriends. The gf players just absolutely refused to talk to the bf players and all the other players wer eleft standing around a bit confused about what was going on.
So the gfs were standing around fuming.. and the bfs were walking around begging for forgivesness - no one knew precisely what for..
the bfs eventually started writing love letter son the grouound out of dropped gold pieces and .. potions... it was a painstaking task .. writing big words like "I MISS YOU" and etc...
it was even more hilarious when new players would arrive, look at the painstakingly drawn letters.. and walk off with the gold and potions before the gf could be enticed to come and look at it...
the poor bfs were sooo upset.....